Break free: Overcoming procrastination and perfectionism

by Jorina Smit, industrial psychologist at Thuso, Student Counselling and Development

Imagine sitting at your desk, the deadline for your assignment looming just days away. You glance at the blank page in front of you, and a wave of anxiety washing over you as you think about the perfect result you need to achieve.

Thoughts race through your mind: What if it’s not good enough? Where do I even begin?

The hours pass, and instead of making progress, you find yourself scrolling through social media or tidying your room, all the while feeling a gnawing sense of guilt.

This is the all-too-familiar struggle with procrastination and perfectionism – a battle many students face, often believing they’re simply being lazy or overly critical. Yet these feelings run deeper, impacting not just your academic success, but your overall well-being.

You may be experiencing two significant barriers to academic success and personal well-being: procrastination and perfectionism. While often seen as harmless quirks of student life, these barriers can lead to feelings of overwhelm and severely impact your mental health.

Procrastination potholes

Procrastination is frequently misunderstood as laziness; however, it often stems from deeper emotional challenges and avoidance. This may arise from anxiety about failure or uncertainty regarding where to start or what the outcome will be.

For many students, avoidance provides short-term relief from overwhelming assignments. However, this relief is fleeting and tends to fuel a destructive cycle of stress and panic. As deadlines approach, the pressure intensifies, leading to last-minute panic, rushed efforts, and ultimately the failure that was feared from the outset.

Procrastination is not merely about delaying work; it involves managing emotional discomfort, highlighting the need for greater emotional awareness and self-compassion in addressing assignments and navigating exam seasons.

Perfectionism pitfalls

On the other hand, perfectionism – while driven by a desire to succeed – creates significant challenges. The intense need to achieve flawless results can result in excessive time spent on a single assignment, often at the expense of other responsibilities or your well-being.

This relentless pursuit of perfection can become paralysing, as you may regard anything less than perfect as a failure. This mindset leads to assignment avoidance and delays in studying, intertwining with procrastination. Consequently, perfectionism becomes a double-edged sword, where the fear of imperfection directly undermines progress and productivity.

Psychological path

Both procrastination and perfectionism deeply affect your mental health, resulting in feelings of guilt, stress, and a cycle of anxiety that may lead to burnout. Procrastinators often experience heightened anxiety as deadlines and exams approach, while perfectionists grapple with the pressure of unattainable standards and a sense of inadequacy.

Over time, these behaviours can lead to chronic stress, low self-esteem, and - in some cases - depression.

Breaking the cycle: practical tips

  1. Recognition: Acknowledge procrastination or perfectionism as soon as it manifests as assignment avoidance, overwhelm, or an intense fear of failure.
  2. Setting goals: Break your assignments or study materials into smaller steps and create priority lists. Replace the pursuit of perfection with the celebration of small victories.
  3. “Good enough” mindset: Focus on progress over perfection.
  4. Time management tools: Utilise time management techniques like the Pomodoro technique to structure tasks and set time limits, helping you avoid getting stuck on minor details.
  5. Self-compassion: Be kind to yourself. Remember that imperfection is part of the journey; your worth is not defined by it.
  6. Seek support: If procrastination or perfectionism is affecting your daily life, consider reaching out to Thuso at Student Counselling and Development for emotional support or the Centre for Teaching and Learning for academic assistance.

By recognising and addressing procrastination and perfectionism, you can shift your focus from perfection to progress. If you navigate this transition with kindness and compassion, you’ll protect your mental health and foster a healthier approach to achieving your goals.

Submitted on Mon, 10/28/2024 - 10:35